Getting over a relationship is hard. Very hard. My dad once told me that a breakup is much like mourning the loss of someone you care about. The relationship itself has died, so there is a natural grieving process. During this process, you can either drive yourself insane, or you can move on in a healthy way. These 30 breakup quotes will help keep things in perspective and help you heal.
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These 30 Breakup Quotes Will Help You Heal
“You may think you’ll never get over it but you will.”
It may be hard right now to imagine you will ever be without this pain but you will. You’ll be stronger, wiser, and more whole.
“Sometimes you have to forget what you want to remember what you deserve.”
They are not one in the same. Many times the thing we want in a relationship is no where close to what we deserve. We deserve so much more than what we typically think we do.
“Good things are coming down the road. Don’t stop walking.”
Keep your head up and take one step at a time. This breakup only means it wasn’t meant to be.
“Life goes on.”
This is a short and not so sweet break up quote. It may sting to hear this but it’s the absolute truth. Life goes on and it will be better.
“If you are brave enough to love them, you are strong enough to let them go.”
If I could only select only one breakup quote that was the most powerful for me, it would be this one. It’s hard to feel strong after heartache. We usually feel weak and alone. But you still have strength, you just have to look for it. You are strong. Remember that.
Breakups don’t necessarily mean forever. Sometimes we just need a little space to re-evaluate what it’s important to us. I was a couple weeks away from marrying my soul mate before we broke up and called it off. That hurt. But it gave us a chance to reflect and now we are together, married (one year later), and stronger than ever.
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“Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.”
Remember that better things are coming for you. Stay hopeful and positive.
“Forgiveness is giving up hope that the past could’ve been any different.”
The past is the past and everything happened so that you can become a better, stronger person. All you can do right now is move forward.
“Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than hurt yourself putting it back together.”
What a powerful breakup healing quote! This breakup may hurt now but it may hurt worse trying to work things out. Know when to walk away.
“Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.”
Now is the time to focus on self-love and improve your self-worth. You deserve the best.
“Some people think that it’s holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it’s letting go.”
You can probably see right now how much strength it’s going to take to let it go.
“You are better off alone than with someone who makes you feel alone.”
Be honest, did you feel alone in your relationship? If so, then at least now you can move on.
“Respect yourself enough to know you deserve the very best.”
This breakup is a reminder that it wasn’t what you deserved. You deserve so much more.
“When your past calls, don’t answer. It has nothing new to say.”
You will either be tempted to call your ex or they will contact you. I can’t give you any specific relationship advice on what to do in this case because every situation is different. Whatever you decide to do, make sure you make your decision with a clear head. Not in anger, loneliness, or fear.
“I am in charge of how I feel and today I am choosing happiness.”
A reminder that you control your own happiness.
“Every breakup is an opportunity to do it right the next time.”
Your breakup is not the end. It may feel like it this time and you may have no desire to start a new relationship in the future, but the opportunity is still there to do better and to be better.
Are any of these quotes healing your heart? If one really speaks to you, write it down and keep it with you.
“Sometimes the person you fall for isn’t ready to catch you.”
How true is this? It hurts when we love someone more than they love us. It doesn’t mean you don’t deserve equal love, it just means you haven’t found it yet.
“Don’t ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday. Let it go.”
Here are some tips and strategies to help you let go of the past. It’s important that you be able to move on.
“God often removes people from your life for a reason. Think before you chase after them.”
Some people are only supposed to be in our lives for a season. There was a purpose for them. Now there is no longer a purpose for them and that is okay.
“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.”
If you were on the back burner in the relationship, then this breakup was necessary.
“Stars cannot shine without darkness.”
Now it’s your time to shine. This may seem like a dark time, but it’s a great opportunity to work on you and improve your life.
When you forgive, you heal. When you let go, you grow.”
I love this breakup quote. It’s very wise. It’s important that you don’t hold on to grudges. There is nothing of value in doing so. Move on and leave the baggage behind.
“At some point you have to let go of what you thought should happen and live what is happening.”
This goes back to letting go. Don’t hold on to what ifs. Focus on living in the right now.
“Someday it’s going to make sense.”
It may not make any sense right now, but in time everything will fall into place. Think about past heartache and pain. Looking back you can probably see the purpose it served.
“Keep your love. I’ll Keep my respect.”
This quote should be your motto if you have been consistently hurt in your relationship. Always respect yourself.
“The poison leaves bit by bit. Be patient, you are healing.”
Pain can feel like poison can’t it? This is a unique way of looking at it. In time you will heal from this breakup.
“Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.”
Print this one! It’s important that you know your self-worth.
“Remember you were born to be real, not perfect.”
Never be someone you are not. If you felt like you weren’t yourself in the relationship, then it’s best that you move on anyway.
“Stop looking for happiness in the same place you lost it.”
It may be tempting to fall back into the same relationships and the same routine. Be strong and avoid this if there is nothing to salvage. Move on.
Healing after a breakup takes time. Surround yourself with positivity and love. This includes supportive people, as well as positive words and messages. Pick a few of your favorite breakup quotes for healing on this list, print them off, hang them up, and review them every day. They will help you heal your hurting heart.
Which of these breakup quotes speaks to you the most? Let me know in the comments below.